A family vacation home is often the asset parents most want to keep in the family, and also the one most likely to create tension between siblings after the parents are gone. A trust can hold the property for the benefit of multiple siblings while spelling out the rules that prevent conflict later.
Why Co-Ownership Alone Often Fails
Leaving a vacation home to siblings as co-owners - often as tenants in common - gives each of them an undivided interest but no built-in mechanism for deciding who pays for the roof repair, who gets the house for the Fourth of July, or what happens if one sibling wants to sell and the others don't. Without an agreement in place, disagreements can eventually lead to a partition action, a legal proceeding that can force a sale of the property even if most of the family wants to keep it. A trust structure avoids much of this by centralizing decision-making and defining the rules up front, while the parents are still alive to set the tone.
What a Vacation Home Trust Can Address
A well-drafted trust holding a shared vacation property typically addresses:
- A usage schedule or a fair process for allocating popular weeks, holidays, and peak summer dates among the sibling beneficiaries.
- How ongoing costs - property taxes, insurance, maintenance, and capital repairs - are funded, whether through a dedicated reserve fund held in the trust or contributions from each sibling.
- A trustee or committee structure for making decisions about major repairs, renovations, or hiring a property manager.
- A buyout mechanism allowing one sibling to exit and be bought out by the others at a defined valuation method, rather than forcing a sale of the entire property.
- Rules for what happens when a sibling wants to bring extended family, rent the property to outsiders, or eventually pass their interest to their own children.
Funding the Trust With a Reserve
One detail families often overlook is funding the trust with liquid assets, not just the real estate itself. A trust that holds the vacation home but has no cash reserve puts siblings in the position of having to contribute out of pocket every time an expense comes up, which is exactly the kind of friction point that leads to resentment. Setting aside a maintenance reserve, sometimes funded through a life insurance policy or a portion of the estate, gives the trust the ability to cover routine costs without immediate demands on the beneficiaries.
Building This Into the Broader Estate Plan
A vacation home trust works best as part of a coordinated trust plan that also considers your overall estate planning goals, particularly if the vacation property is one of several assets being divided among children with different needs and different relationships to the property.
If your family owns a vacation home you want to keep for future generations without creating sibling conflict, Marianna Schwartsman can help design a trust that addresses these issues directly. Schedule a free consultation or call +1 212 518 3868.


